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[8  XXdd8_XNXGIXXXXN#XNXXXD#XXXXNiY#XNXXX#XXXXNThefollowingarticleispostedinitsentiretywiththeexpresswrittenconsentofPastorTerry  L.Coomerto4 P O  5  http://www.earnestlycontendingforthefaith.com/6O  7 nԀ.#XNXXX#XXXXN#I?GXX%#XXGI? p  #XNXXX#YXXXXN#I?GXX#XXGI? #XNXXX#o#IGXXN#XNXGIXXXXN_  #I?GXXQ#;;GI?FortheLoveoftheFamilyMinistriesTM 4 #I?G;;#O GI?MissionariestoAmerica'sForgottenMissionField,theFamily   HowToLoseYourChildBeforeHeIsFiveYearsOld   Dr.TerryL.Coomer,Pastor 0  MinistryofHopeBaptistChurch D  139ShadowOaksDrive X  Sherwood,AR72120 l  501-819-0446   4? 5  #I?G Oo#GI? TLCOOMER@juno.com67 8   #I?GC#XXGI?4  5   http://www.fortheloveofthefamily.com67 N  X  4A 5  http://www.hopebaptistlittlerock.com6r 7 -  #XNXXXp#XXXXN D   ListentoDr.Coomerontheworldwideradiobroadcast"ForTheLoveOfTheFamily"every  Saturdayat2:00P.M.and9:00P.M.ESToni Ԁhttp://www.aocbroadcast.com. #XNXXX #XXXXN  #XNXXX #XXXXN ThesemessagesmaybecopiedintheirentiretytohelpChristiansintherearingoftheir \ childrenforGod,strengtheningtheirfamily,andtheirmarriage.Theyarenottobechanged H inanymannerortobesold.Thisheadermustbeonanycopy.Ifyouhaveanyquestions, 4 pleasefeelfreetocontacttheauthor.G #XNXXX #XXXXN#I?GXX#XXGI?   #XNXXX ##IGXXN #WNXGIWVUXWN  mUWVHOWTOLOSEYOURCHILDBEFOREHEISFIVEYEARSOLD#WVUmݲ# : WVUUWV Thefollowingmessageisdistributedby:(FundamentalBaptistInformationService,P.O. : Box610368,PortHuron,MI48061,866-295-4143,4 O  5  fbns@wayoflife.org.6 O4  7 zb   ThefollowingiseditedandadaptedfromamessagepreachedbythelateJ.B.Buffington  h (1923-2009)atCalvaryBaptistChurch,Lakeland,Florida,intheearly1970s. !N Rearingafamilyoughttobeathingofjoy.Yououghttositdownathomeandlaughabout #  allthelittlethingsthathappen.Yououghttobehappy. $!! IcantalkaboutteenagersbecauseIhavehadfourofthem.Myyoungestdaughteris23 P&"# yearsold,soIknowalittlebitaboutteenagers. 6'#$ Iveheardpeoplesay,Everythingwentalongalrightuntilmychildrenbecameteenagers )~%& andthensomethinghappened.ButIbegyourpardon,thatsnotthecase.Mostofit )d&' happenedbeforefiveyearsold.ThatswhyIexhortmothers,Dontletanybodybeababy *J'( sitterofyourchildrenexceptyouandothergodlypeople.Thosefirstfiveyears,attitudes, +0() security,goals,andmanyotherthingsarealreadydeveloped,andtheywillcomeintofull ,)* blossominteenageyears.Achildislikeacomputer.Whatyouputincomesout.Youcan  putsomethingintoacomputerandpraythatsomethingelsewillcomeout,butitwont j happen. P Iurgeyounottowastetime,tostartearly.  Followingaresomeofthewaysthatparentscanlosetheirteenagersbeforetheyarefive d yearsold.WVUUWV   J  (zx83"\"  \2zx  1  .3    ݀UseworldlycounselinsteadofGodsWordaboutrearingchildren.\݌    Ќ  WVUUWV Blessedisthemanthatwalkethnotinthecounseloftheungodly,(Psalm1:1).Theworld x  canttellyouhowtoraiseyourboyorgirl.Idontcarehowwelltheyaretrained;Godknows ^  humannaturebetterthananybodyelse.Hemadethechildren,andyouneedtostickby D  theWordofGod.Itworks!Followingworldlycounselisthewaytolosethem. *  Hosea4:6says,Mypeoplearedestroyedforlackofknowledge...Hosea8:12says,Ihave   writtentohimthegreatthingsofmylaw,buttheywerecountedasastrangething. r Whydoteenagerssmokemarijuana?Theydoittoescapereality,toenterafantasyworld. X Nowladies,thatsoapboxoperaonthetelevisionintheafternoonisnotreality,andifyou > expecttorearyourchildrenandtobethekindofwifethatyououghttobe,youbetterturn $ offthoseprogramsandforgetthosethings.Thatisnotreality.Thatisescapism;thats   dreaming.Thatismuchaflightfromrealityasakidonmarijuana.WVUUWV  t  (zx88! !"\"  \32zx  2  .3    ݀Considerchildrenaburden,ablight,acurse,arobberofyourtimeandpleasure.\3`݌ F Ќ  WVUUWV Achildknowshowyoufeeltowardhimandreactstowardyouinthesamemanner.Even  ababyknowswhetheryoulovehimornot.  Ifyouthinkyourchildrenareablightandaburdenandthattheyareinyourway,thebest L thingyoucandoforthemistogivethemawaybecauseyouwillhavemanyheartaches 2 whentheygettobeteenagers.Youprogramintotheirheartsthattheyareinyourway,that  theytakeyourtime,thattheyarejusttrouble,thattheyarentvaluable,andwhentheyget  tobeteenagers,allofthatresentmentcomespouringout. h   WeneedtoconsiderourchildrenanheritagefromtheLordandhisreward(Psalm127:3), 4"" becausetheywillliveandactlikewhatwehavetoldthemtheyarebyourattitudetoward ## them.IfIhavetoldthemthattheyarethejoyofmylife,thatisthewaytheywilllive.WVUUWV  $| $ "\"  \#2zx  3  .3    ݀Makeyourpossessionsmoreimportantthanyourchildren;dontmakethehome %N"& aplaceoffun.\##݌ &:#' Ќ  WVUUWV Youtellthem,Getoutofthehouse;getoffmycarpet!andthenyouwonderwhentheyare (%) teenagersthattheydontwanttocomehome.Now,Idontbelievethatthechildrenshould |)%* breakthingsandIbelievetheyshouldlearnhowtocleanuptheirmesses,butthereis b*&+ somethingmoreimportantthanthehomeandthefurnitureandthecarpetandthepiano, H+', andthatisthepeoplewholivethere.Iliketoliveathome.ThatiswhereIcankickoffmy .,(- shoesinthelivingroom.ThatswhereIcanrelaxandenjoymyself;andMomandDad,you -). needtomakesurethatyourchildrenfeelthatway.Therehavebeenveryfewnightsthat  mychildrenhaveaskedtostayawayfromhome.Ifthehomeisaplaceofjoy,theywill j bringtheirfriendsthere.Beforeachildisfiveyearsold,heknowsifthehomeisaplace P ofhappinessandaplacewherehecanenjoyhimself. 6 Now,Idontbelieveinadirtyhouse.Thereisadifferencebetweenadirtyhouseanda ~ housethatiscomfortableandabitmessedup.Ahousethatisdirtyhasntbeencleaned, d butahousethatismessedupislivedin.  J Whenyourchildrenbecometeenagers,whatwilltheythinkabouttheplacecalledhome?    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!"\ "  \C2zx  10  .3    ݀Whenyoudisciplineachild,argueaboutit.\CC݌ < Ќ  WVUUWV Ifthehusbandstartstowhipachild,themothersays,Doyoureallythinkyoushoulddo  that?Thechildquicklylearnstomanipulatethesituation.Heorshewillriskgettinginto v troublejusttoseemomanddadhaveafight.Whenyoudiscipline,theparentsmustbe \ inharmonyandmustshowthechildthattheyareinharmony.Themommustsay,Ifdaddy B saidit,thatsright.Thedadmustsay,Ifmommysaidit,thatsright.Theymustsupportone ( anotherandworkoutanydifferencesinprivate.WVUUWV     "\ "  \&G2zx  11  .3    ݀Bragontheirtalentsbutnottheircharacter,andconstantlyshowthemoffin d"" public.\&GSG݌ P## Ќ  WVUUWV Thewisethingtodoistobragoncharacter,nottalents.WVUUWV  (%!% "\ "  \H2zx  12  .3    ݀Turnonthetelevisionorradioorstereoandletworldlymusicplayconstantly.\HI݌ &v#' Ќ  WVUUWV Worldlymusicproducesaworldlyenvironmentandcreatesworldlyattitudes.Ontheother (N%) hand,youcanprogramtemperamentandstabilityandpeaceandquietnessinyourhome )4&* ifyougetgoodsacredChristianmusic.YoucanplayBiblestoriesinaroomwherealittle *'+ babyissleeping,andyouareprogrammingBiblestoriesintohislittlemind.Kidsdonthave +(, tolearnthingsformally;youjustputitthereandtheyarelikeablotter.Theyabsorbit.Put j,(- soothing,Christ-honoring,soul-stirringChristianmusiconandjustletitplayinyourhome, P-). andyouareprogrammingsomethingofsecurityandtranquilityandpeaceintothe  childrenshearts.(AlistofSuggestedSacredMusicRecordingscanbefoundattheWay j ofLifewebsite.)WVUUWV  P "\ "  \M2zx  13  .3    ݀Teachthemtobeafraid.\MM݌ v Ќ  WVUUWV Whenlighteningcomes,whenstormscome,evenifyouarescared,dontshowit.When  N akidfallsdown,helooksupathisparenttoseeifheshouldcry.Ifhefallsdown,dont  4  makeabigissueofit,orhewillexpectthatallthroughlife.Everytimehehasalittle    troublehewillexpectsomeonetomakeabigissueofitandfussoverhim,andthatisnot   reallife.Whenhefallsdown,justtreatitlightlyandencouragehimtogetuponhisown j  andmoveon.Iknowamotherthatwhenherchildfelldown,shewouldrunandgetan P  aspirinforhim!Therearemanyfearsthatpeoplehavethattheirparentstaughtthem. 6  Myfriends,wemustfaceourfears.Oneofmygirlswasscaredtodeathofdogs.Oneday ~ shecameintothehousescreaming,andIthoughtatigerwasafterher,butitwasjusta d littledog.Youcanttalkfearout,soIgotadog.Ididntnecessarilywantadog;Igotadog J inordertohelpalittlegirlfaceherfears.Oneofmyboyslearnedtoswimbutwasafraid 0 toswimacrossthedeepsideofthepool.OnedayIsaid,Youaregoingtoswimacross  therebeforewegohome.Heswamacrossandgotridofhisfear.HadIignoredthat,his  fearwouldhavegrown.Feardweltuponcanparalyze.Dontrunfromyourfears;facethem. f Dontinstillfearintheheartofyourboyorgirl.Whentheylookupatyou,theyneedtosee L confidenceandassurance(butnotpride).Manyparentshavetaughttheirchildthatthey 2 cantgotosleepwithoutalighton.Iftheyareafraidofthedark,gointherewiththemin  thedarkandshowthemthatthereisnothingtobeafraidof.WVUUWV  z "\ "  \~V2zx  14  .3    ݀Donttaketimetolistentothemandtalkwiththem.\~VV݌ L Ќ  WVUUWV Ifyouaretoobusytotalktothemwhentheyarelittle,whentheygetoldertheywillgoto $ someoneelseforcounsel.Bythetimetheyarefiveyearsold,theyalreadyhaveanidea   aboutyou,whetheryoutakethetimetolistentothemoryouaretoobusy.Taketimeto t   listentothemwhentheirlittleconversationdoesntmeananything,sothatwhenthe Z!! conversationisserioustheywilltalkwithyouandlistentoyou.WVUUWV  @""  (zx88! !"\"  \\Z2zx  15  .3    ݀Beaduelpersonality.\\ZZ݌ $ $ Ќ  WVUUWV Ifyouareonepersonalityatchurchandanotherpersonalityathome,thechildrenknow %f"& youareafakeandtheydontlikeit.Thathypocrisywillruinthem.WVUUWV  &L#' "\"  \2\2zx  16  .3    ݀Criticizethepreacherinfrontofthem.\2\_\݌ (%) Ќ  WVUUWV Ifyoudocriticizethepreacherinfrontofthem,youshouldntbesurprisedwhenthe z*&+ childrenrefusetoobeyauthorityandrefusetotakethepreachersexhortationstoheart.WVUUWV  `+', "\"  \-^2zx  17  .3    ݀Mother,teachyourlittlegirlrebellion.\-^Z^݌ 2-). [    ь  WVUUWV Weteachbyaction,andthemotherteachesadaughterrebellionbyherownstubbornness p anddisobediencetoherhusbandandtothepreacherandtootherauthorities.She V teachesrebellionbynotcaringhowshelooksforherhusband.Mother,thelittlegirlgets < anideaofwhataladyislikefromyou.Ifthemotherisinlovewithherhusbandand " devotedtohimandinsubmissiontohim,herdaughterwillgrowuptofollowthatexample  andshewillfollowherhusbandtothejumpingoffplace,andnotshovehimoffbutjump j offwithhim.ManymenthatGodhascalledtotheministryarehavinggreatproblems  P becausetheirwivesarenotinsubmission.Theirwivesaremorecommittedtotheir  6 mothersthantotheirhusbands.Theyarenotwillingtoleavetheirrelativestogotothe    placeofGodscalling.OnequestionIaskeveryyoungwomanthatsitsinmyofficefor    counselbeforeawedding,Doyoulovethismanenoughtoleaveyourmotherandfather? l  Iaskthesamethingoftheyoungmen.Ifyoucantansweryestothat,youarentold R  enoughtogetmarried.Mother,lookinthemirror,becausethelittlegirlthatgrowsupin 8  yourhomewillprobablybejustlikeyouinherattitudetowardauthorityandmeningeneral   andinherattitudetowardherhusbandinparticular.Ifyouarethinkingaboutmarryinga   girl,youshouldtakealookathermotherandherattitudetowardthesethings.WVUUWV  f "\"  \Xf2zx  18  .3    ݀Dad,treatyourwifedisrespectfully.\Xff݌ 8 Ќ  WVUUWV Treatthewifewithdisrespectandalackofcompassion,andyouwillraiseaboythatdoes  thesamething.Beforeyoumarryayoungman,youhadbettertakealonglookathis z fatherandattheattitudeofhisfathertowardthewife.Ifadadtalksaboutotherwomenall ` thetime,aboutblondsandbrunettesandredheads,thelittleboywillfollowthatexample. F Thedadneedstoteachhissonthatheiscommittedtohiswifeandthathewoulddiefor , her,andthenwhentheboygrowsupandsaysathiswedding,tilldeathdouspart,hewill  meanit.Thedadmustteachhissonhowtobetreatgirlswithkindnessandhowtobea t gentlemantowardwomenandhowtohaveaproperrespectfortheoppositesex.Andit Z muststartearly.WVUUWV  @ "\"  \k2zx  19  .3    ݀Dad,teachyoursontobewimpy.\k;k݌  Ќ  WVUUWV Doyouknowthatthereisdifferencebetweenhowyouraiseagirlandhowyouraisea n   boy?Withagirlyoutreatherwithgentleness;withaboyyoutriphimwhenhewalkspast! T!! Aboyneedsroughness.Youwanttogrowhimuptobeaman,notasissy.Getapairof :"" boxingglovesandswaplickswithhim.Wrestlewithhimandlethimgetthebestofyou  ## sometimes,butsometimesputascissorgriponhimsohecanlearnreality.Lifeisrough, $ $ andamanmustlearnhowtodealwithit.Hemustlearnthatlifehaspain,thatthereisgive $h!% andtake,andhemustknowhowtotake.Teachhimtowalklikeaman,worklikeaman, %N"& thinklikeaman.Thepredominatefigureinaboyslifeneedstobehisfather.The &4#' predominatefigureinagirlslifeneedstobehermother.Thereareboysthathavegotten '$( soattachedtotheirmothersthattheycanthaveasuccessfulmarriage.WVUUWV  (%)  (zx88! !"\"  \p2zx  20  .3    ݀Teachyourchildrenthatyoudonttrustthem.\p*q݌ V*&+ Ќ  WVUUWV Weknowthatfoolishnessisboundintheheartofachildandthatchildrenarechildrenand .,(- thattheyhavetolearnhowtobedependableandhonest,butweneedtohavethe -). objectiveoflettingthechildrenknowthatwetrustthem.Earlyinlifeweneedtotellour  childrenthatwedontwantthemtobreakourtrust.Itrustyouson;Itrustyoudaughter; j dontlietome.IfyoulietomeIcanttrustyou.Teachthemfromtheearliestage,Tellthe P truth;tellthetruth;tellthetruth.MydaddydiedwhenIwasinhighschool.WhenIwould 6 getreadytogosomewhere,mymotherwouldsay,Son,Itrustyou.Boy,thatkeptmeout  ofalotofthings.Nowifshehadsaid,Idonttrustyouson,Iwouldhaveactedouther ~ distrust. d  Conclusion   0 InthebookofProverbs,theidealwomanisnotabusinessman;itisamotherandwifeat    home.Thehomeisnotthewomansdungeon;itisherthrone.Daddy,inPsalm128,God l  talksaboutthehomeinthismanner: R  BlessediseveryonethatfeareththeLORD;thatwalkethinhisways.Forthoushalteat   thelabourofthinehands:happyshaltthoube,anditshallbewellwiththee.Thywifeshall   beasafruitfulvinebythesidesofthinehouse:thychildrenlikeoliveplantsroundabout f thytable.Behold,thatthusshallthemanbeblessedthatfeareththeLORD(Psalms L 128:1-4). 2 ThethingthatGodgavetoJobafterallhistravailwashishomere-establishedandletting  himseehischildrentothefourthgeneration. h Iknowparentsthatarejustlookingforwardtowhentheirkidsgetoldenoughtogetoutof 4 thehouse.Youknowwhythatis?Becausebeforethechildrenwerefiveyearsoldthey  programmedthewrongthingsintotheirheartsandmodeledthewrongthingsbeforethem. | UWV  Dr.TerryL.CoomeristhePastorofElwoodBibleBaptistChurch,andtheDirectorofFortheLoveoftheFamily H Ministries.HehasalsoservedasthePublisherofthenationsfastestgrowingdailynewspaper.PastorCoomerholds   FamilyConferencesinthelocalchurch.Tohaveameetingatyourchurchorotherneedshemaybecontactedat(765) T 5521973, 4# O5  TLCOOMER@juno.com6|7 ||.Therearemanyhelpfularticlesandmaterialonourwebsitetohelpyouchange  yourlifeat4! 5  http://www.fortheloveofthefamily.com6}7 s}}.WeservetheGodofanswers.Ifyouneedhelpfindingthoseanswers X youmaycontactusat 4 5  TLCOOMER@juno.com6~7 A~~.___To_Ԁberemovedfromourmailinglistsendane-mailto    4" 5  TLCOOMER@juno.com67 H .#{## z#